Reading group – Solitudes: Past and Present https://solitudes.qmul.ac.uk Research on Pathologies of Solitude, 18th – 21st century Wed, 01 Mar 2023 10:25:14 +0000 en-GB hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=5.1.8 Reading Group – Warren Boutcher on ‘Montaigne and Solitude’ https://solitudes.qmul.ac.uk/events/seminar-warren-boutcher-on-montaigne-and-solitude/ Fri, 15 Nov 2019 10:21:20 +0000 https://solitudes.qmul.ac.uk/?post_type=events&p=871 This event has been postponed due to COVID-19 and will be rescheduled at a later date. 

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This event has been postponed due to COVID-19 and will be rescheduled at a later date. 

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Reading Group – Marion Milner’s ‘A Life of One’s Own’ https://solitudes.qmul.ac.uk/events/reading-group-marion-milner-6/ Fri, 06 Sep 2019 15:31:19 +0000 https://solitudes.qmul.ac.uk/?post_type=events&p=801 Join us in discovering what Marion Milner calls ‘butterfly thoughts’, which flutter in from nowhere and are gone in a moment, in Chapter 8 - ‘Discovering that Thought Can be Blind’ - of A Life of One’s Own.

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‘Another trick that I discovered was to keep myself particularly alert to any little movements going on in the back of my mind, passing ideas which were often quite irrelevant to my task of the moment and which I would never have noticed in the ordinary way. I called these ‘butterflies’ for they silently fluttered in from nowhere and were gone in a moment.’

Marion Milner’s writing concerns itself with the joys and difficulties of thinking independently and living creatively. A Life of One’s Own begins with Milner observing that her life ‘was not as I would like it and that it might be in my power to make it different’. What followed was a ‘seven years’ study of living’.

Written before Milner trained as a psychoanalyst, this book is difficult to classify: part diary, part detective story. The aim of this reading group is not to master Milner’s writing, but to try out for ourselves Milner’s experiments in writing, thinking, and observation. After a discussion of the text, participants are invited to take a walk in neighbouring Abney park, and to write a journal entry, if they so wish.

Email akshi.singh@qmul.ac.uk for readings or further information.

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Reading Group – Marion Milner’s ‘A Life of One’s Own’ https://solitudes.qmul.ac.uk/events/reading-group-marion-milner-5/ Tue, 13 Aug 2019 15:17:48 +0000 https://solitudes.qmul.ac.uk/?post_type=events&p=779 Join us in experimenting with ways of seeing, following from Milner’s observations in Chapter 7 - 'Two Ways of Looking' - of A Life of One’s Own.

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‘Slowly I realised that the facts were not separate things which were there for anyone to pick up, but an ever-changing pattern against a boundless background of the unknown, an immense kaleidoscope changing constantly according to the different ways you looked at it.’

Marion Milner’s writing concerns itself with the joys and difficulties of thinking independently and living creatively. A Life of One’s Own begins with Milner observing that her life ‘was not as I would like it and that it might be in my power to make it different’. What followed was a ‘seven years’ study of living’.

Written before Milner trained as a psychoanalyst, this book is difficult to classify: part diary, part detective story. The aim of this reading group is not to master Milner’s writing, but to try out for ourselves Milner’s experiments in writing, thinking, and observation. After a discussion of the text, participants are invited to take a walk in a neighbouring park, and to write a journal entry, if they so wish.

Email akshi.singh@qmul.ac.uk for readings or further information.

We will be getting together for dinner after the reading group and walk — please email Akshi if you have any special dietary requirements.

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Reading Group – Marion Milner’s ‘A Life of One’s Own’ https://solitudes.qmul.ac.uk/events/reading-group-marion-milner-4/ Fri, 21 Jun 2019 14:24:49 +0000 https://solitudes.qmul.ac.uk/?post_type=events&p=769 Can we be ourselves 'at all costs'? Join us to discuss the fifth chapter of A Life of One’s Own: part diary, part detective story, and above all an experiment in writing, thinking, and observation.

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‘People said: “Oh, be yourself at all costs”. But I had found that it was not so easy to know just what one’s self was. It was far easier to want what other people seemed to want and then imagine that the choice was one’s own’. In this meeting we will read Chapter V, ‘Searching for a Purpose’, from A Life Of One’s Own.

Written before Milner trained as a psychoanalyst, this book is difficult to classify: part diary, part detective story. The aim of this reading group is not to master Milner’s writing, but to try out for ourselves Milner’s experiments in writing, thinking, and observation. After a discussion of the text, participants are invited to take a walk in a neighbouring park, and to write a journal entry, if they so wish.

Email akshi.singh@qmul.ac.uk for readings or further information.

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Reading Group – Marion Milner’s ‘A Life of One’s Own’ https://solitudes.qmul.ac.uk/events/reading-group-marion-milner-1/ Fri, 21 Dec 2018 06:10:23 +0000 https://solitudes.qmul.ac.uk/?post_type=events&p=96 All are welcome to the first meeting of our reading group, where we will read the first chapter of A Life of One’s Own, in which Milner embarks upon her project of ‘trying to manage my life, not according to tradition, or authority, or rational theory, but by experiment.’

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Marion Milner’s writing concerns itself with the joys and difficulties of thinking independently and living creatively. A Life of One’s Own begins with Milner observing that her life ‘was not as I would like it and that it might be in my power to make it different’. What followed was a ‘seven years’ study of living’.

Written before Milner trained as a psychoanalyst, this book is difficult to classify: part diary, part detective story. The aim of this reading group is not to master Milner’s writing, but to try out for ourselves Milner’s experiments in writing, thinking, and observation. After a discussion of the text, participants are invited to take a walk in a neighbouring park, and to write a journal entry, if they so wish.

Email akshi.singh@qmul.ac.uk for readings or further information.

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Reading Group – Marion Milner’s ‘A Life of One’s Own’ https://solitudes.qmul.ac.uk/events/reading-group-marion-milner-2/ Fri, 21 Dec 2018 06:09:35 +0000 https://solitudes.qmul.ac.uk/?post_type=events&p=97 Have you ever kept a diary? Join us in discussing Marion Milner’s experiment in living and writing - ‘the facts of my life were not so many fixed items which only needed adding up and balancing... Writing down my experiences then seemed to be a creative act which continually lit up new possibilities in what I had seen'.

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Marion Milner’s writing concerns itself with the joys and difficulties of thinking independently and living creatively. A Life of One’s Own begins with Milner observing that her life ‘was not as I would like it and that it might be in my power to make it different’. What followed was a ‘seven years’ study of living’.

Written before Milner trained as a psychoanalyst, this book is difficult to classify: part diary, part detective story. The aim of this reading group is not to master Milner’s writing, but to try out for ourselves Milner’s experiments in writing, thinking, and observation. After a discussion of the text, participants are invited to take a walk in a neighbouring park, and to write a journal entry, if they so wish.

Email akshi.singh@qmul.ac.uk for readings or further information.

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Reading Group – Marion Milner’s ‘A Life of One’s Own’ https://solitudes.qmul.ac.uk/events/reading-group-marion-milner-3/ Fri, 21 Dec 2018 06:09:01 +0000 https://solitudes.qmul.ac.uk/?post_type=events&p=98 What is it like discover an unknown aspect of one’s self? Join us in discussing Milner's exploration of the hinterland of thought: ‘happenings of vital importance to me... going on, not somewhere away from me, but just underneath the calm surface of my own mind'.

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Marion Milner’s writing concerns itself with the joys and difficulties of thinking independently and living creatively. A Life of One’s Own begins with Milner observing that her life ‘was not as I would like it and that it might be in my power to make it different’. What followed was a ‘seven years’ study of living’.

Written before Milner trained as a psychoanalyst, this book is difficult to classify: part diary, part detective story. The aim of this reading group is not to master Milner’s writing, but to try out for ourselves Milner’s experiments in writing, thinking, and observation. After a discussion of the text, participants are invited to take a walk in a neighbouring park, and to write a journal entry, if they so wish.

Email akshi.singh@qmul.ac.uk for readings or further information.

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