Voluntary Solitaries: Loners, Introverts, Misanthropes

To ‘get away from it all’ is one of our most enduring yet rarely fulfilled fantasies. In discourses of mental and physical self-care, solitude is figured as a restorative practice, a means of relaxation long associated with reflective contemplation, scholarship and literary creativity. Social withdrawal may also involve a radical rejection of social convention or personal oppression, providing a point of departure for a freer way of life and the development of new sensibilities.

However, voluntary solitude has also long been pathologised and stigmatised. In pre-modern society, a pronounced preference for solitude (unless religiously motivated) was almost invariably regarded as misanthropic and condemned by Christians as a sin. Criticisms grew louder in the 18th century, as the growth of commercial individualism prompted fears about social cohesion being eroded by ‘self-love’. Sociability became the hallmark of an enlightened citizen. Jean-Jacques Rousseu’s passion for solitude saw him denounced as a ‘gloomy misanthrope’ and – significantly – as a ‘madman’.

The link between solitariness and mental illness has become much stronger with the growth of professional psychiatry. In 1980 the DSM added ‘avoidant personality disorder’ to its diagnostic categories, followed by ‘social anxiety disorder’ in 1994. Today there is widespread concern about the voluntary solitary, ranging from those with mental disorders to those who prefer to connect with other individuals only digitally to those who reject the social convention.

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